I have had a lot of personal problems in my life recently, and to hear from other members outside of this forum (who shall remain nameless) of Mel's idiotic and downright shameful behaviour towards me yet again is of no surprise. It is also extremely disappointing that Mel once more has attacked someone on a personal level.
I corrected a few "facts" Mel had clearly stated as apparent "fact".
Someone saying that it was harsh because Mel is not from the UK is rather naive, I must apologise if this is not what you want to hear, but such is Mel's own knowledge of this hobby (this cannot be argued with as we all know what he is like). Almost everything Mel says on this forum, and others, is "fact" - this is wrong as it misleads people. We have all seen this.
I must say that I fail to see the point of Mel's personal attacks (yet again).
I am rather amused by his antics.
I actually feel sorry for him. I pity him.
It is people like Mel who go out of their way to dislodge and defame others who correct their own wrongs.
I suppose it all boils down to Mel's neediness to be loved and be famed for being the Almighty.
I suppose it all boils down to Mel's attention-seeking nature.
I find it very, very sad that someone, whether it is Mel or another, will go out of their way taking screen-shots of web pages, of auctions, of anything, and then go about writing diatribe that not only harms the person they are writing about but also themselves. Does he not understand this? Does he not understand that the internet records everything you say on it?
How can one person get so involved with their own ego that they think attacking someone else is the right way to go about things?
Now Mel,
You can continue to attack me, say all the nastiness in the world (I know who likes me, I know who appreciates me, I know who does not and I know what you think of me) but know this - you do not know a thing about me apart from what you read on this forum and what you see on my websites. You do not know about any part of my life to attack me on it in any personally informed manner, despite me even providing you the opportunity to do so.
I have never, do not, and will never hold myself in higher regard as a complete person against you or anyone else on this planet.
I am not better than you.
You are not better than me.
I am more mature than you.
You more immature than me.
You are better at law than me.
I am worse at law than you.
But we are still the same.
You need to get to grips with how you interact with the wider world because you never know who or what is around the corner.
And please, for the sake of your own self, grow up and begin to realise that you need help with your attitude. You need to learn when to stop. You need to learn when to fight and when not to. You need to learn the difference between discussion and attacking. You need to learn that you have upset a lot of people in this hobby. You need to learn that a lot of people don't like you for these reasons and more.
You need to take a long, hard look at yourself.
You are your own worst enemy.
What I have been told by other members and the abuse from you publicly has put me off this forum altogether. I think that is disgusting. I know I am not the only one who has said this, and so with that in mind I ask you to reconsider your position in relation to your thinking, attacks, and overall attitude to me and others as you are pushing people away from a forum and hobby that is there for everyone.
The sad thing about all this is that after everything that has happened in my life recently, I have finally come to the realisation that, you know what, I don't need this.
I don't care any longer.
I have the support of those who matter most.
I'm sorry everyone, but I've had enough of this place.
I cannot continue to play a part in a forum where I will be continually attacked on a personal level over my posts and/or my corrections of so-called "facts" without the direct intervention of the forum administrators.
If anyone wishes to contact me, then please do not hesitate to write me or call me:
bondposters@hotmail.com
Thank you, and all the best to those who have supported me on this forum from the very beginning to now, I really do appreciate it.
Adam
