UPDATE: I've got partial access now... Jeff passed my IP addresses on to the server folks to create exceptions.
At the local
shop they use IPv4 addresses and I can now access APF there.
At home I have AT&T Uverse and they use the new, longer IPv6 addresses and I still do not have access there.
Not sure if there is any hope left for home access. Luckily we are considering changing to cable internet, which should solve the problem. Thanks again to Jeff for working on this issue!